FAMILY VS LOVER

[sonia ahmed]

DEAR FRIENDS,

SUPPOSE U R HAVING AN AFFAIR & U R SERIOUS WTH IT. U'VE DECIDED THAT U'LL MARRY THIS PERSON WTH WHOM U R ENGAGED.

BUT UR FAMILY IS NOT IN UR SUPPORT. THEY DONT APPRECIATE LOVE MARRIAGE OR THEY DECIDED 2 MARRY U OFF SOMEWHERE ELSE OR U URSELF CAN REALIZE THAT IF U MARRY HIM/HER THERE WILL BE FAMILY PROBLEMS.

WHT U'LL DO IN THIS SITUATION? WILL U LEAVE UR LOVE 4 UR FAMILY OR WILL U LEAVE UR FAMILY 4 LOVE? :?

PLS B HONEST IN ANSWERING.

[Rainy]

Well I would have somehow convienced my family...But if I was really serious I wouldn't sacrifise anything.If I really love someone and cant make my own family understand my love...whats the point of loving?

My family is different enough...hopefully I wont face anything like this...:)

[DeV|L]

Hmm...very confusing situation indeed. As I am a guy and the only son...I think I can convince my parents. Moreover there is very little chance that I will go out with someone whom my parents will have reasons to dislike! :-)

[faiyaz]

nice topic ... ... difficult to answer ... ... i cant tell at this moment ... ... time & situation will tell ... ... :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:

[BlacK_JacK]

good Q. i got dis kinda Q b4 in frnd cilcle & had very simple ans...
anser ta hoilo ... ... ...

[sonia ahmed]

MONE HOCCE SOBAI VALOI ACE.LOVER NIYE FAMILY'R SATHE PROB NAI :D

[Son Of Bangla]

i think i can manage my mom nd dad if sumthin like that happens I wont chose anyone who cant match my family's expectations.but if i cant i'll go for my family.

[Dio]

Hmm...very confusing situation indeed. As I am a guy and the only son...I think I can convince my parents. Moreover there is very little chance that I will go out with someone whom my parents will have reasons to dislike! :-)
nice topic ... ... difficult to answer ... ... i cant tell at this moment ... ... time & situation will tell ... ... :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
I can convince my family if i need to cause Im the only son. but like faiyaz said, time and situation will tell. :o :roll:

[counting_semesters041]

Well, personally i'd never go for someone seriously if they don't have certain qualities i'm looking for. Since those qualities coincide with what my folks want, too...i don't predict such a big problem in my case.

[BlacK_JacK]

MONE HOCCE SOBAI VALOI ACE.LOVER NIYE FAMILY'R SATHE PROB NAI :D
amar lover i nai ... tai lover niya problem o nai :D

[DeV|L]

Maybe in the future! :) @ black_jack

Well said...but unfortunately we don't always fall in love with the right people! :) @ countin_sem

[counting_semesters041]

Devil - Sheta to botei, but just in general akta kotha arki. Most of the times we usually go for a preferred 'type'. :p

[DeV|L]

That we do...but that cud come in mixed packages ya know...maybe one of the qualities in is a huge amount while the another quality is not. That cud still be closer to your type and might appear attractive! :)

[Pocket_Vorti_Megh]

hehehehe,, family er chinta koira prem? heheheh.. hohohoh..
eita hoilo gia alkhalla pore foot ball khelte nama r ki.

thats what happend in my case. sometimes parents make unusual reasons. they cannot simply accept the fact that i can select my own. for me, i cannot simply hurt my parents and i know they are stubborn like hell, dont want to waste my time convincing them.

and thats i why i am not going for love marriage at all. i am happy everyone is happy. the world is good.

[DeV|L]

Apnar style is pretty good actually. I mean shara life onek bar prem-tem kore at the end going for arranged marriage and appearing oh-so-innocent infront of your wife. I think that is one of the best ideas! :-)

[Pocket_Vorti_Megh]

@ devil, chekha gula kintu ami deinai. :P

[BBa_dEAN]

Ammu bolse... "Baba ishtablish ho... mey posondo korbi ami giya bia er bebostha korbo... tor kisu ee kora lagbe na... tor posondo ee amar posondo..." :)


Ammu rox.... :lol:

[Pocket_Vorti_Megh]

@ dean, kintu ISHTABLISH hoite to khobor hoe jabe. ajkal ekta notun trend suru hoise. fashion jemon ghure ghure ase, temon ballo bibaher trend tao ekhon abar ese geche. dean shaheb, ei shujog ta kaje lagate paro.

[BBa_dEAN]

P.V.M. vai ballo-bibaho korle to ammu support dibe na...

Tasara amar aro boro howa dorkar...Karon Manush chena boroi dae... ! ! !

Ami ekhon porjonto shudhu vul ee kore ashtesi... !! !! !!

[Pocket_Vorti_Megh]

@ dean, ammur support er chinta korle tahole premer asha bad dao. be cool and go for settled relationship.

[BBa_dEAN]

P.V.M vai ammu loved gal er sathe bia dibe...

Ar amar eto joggota nai je lone marriage kore settle hobo...

Ar LOVE diya pet vore na...

[DeV|L]

Thik buzlam nah...are u guys in support of love marriage or arranged marriage? :S

[Pocket_Vorti_Megh]

amio confused. ekta sitamol tablet khaia jaira kasoto vai.

[BBa_dEAN]

Are vai kashi diya ki ar konna er hashi futbo ? ?

Konnar hashi na shunle ki ar sham er bashi bajbo ? ?

Duijon er pet na vorle LOVE janala diya ural dibo... :P

DeV|L ami ARRENGED-LOVE-MARRIAGE er kotha boltesi... :D

[DeV|L]

Sheita toh ami buztesi...but the topic is kinda changing...so I was wondering if u guys actually prefer arranged marriage over love marriage! :-)

[BBa_dEAN]

I prefer both.... So I would go for arrenged love-marriage with the back-up of my mom...

In my case itz not family vs. lover... IT IS FAMILY WITH LOVER.... :lol:

[Pocket_Vorti_Megh]

dean tahole kichuri marriage e bissasi. valo. to sobji khichuri naki vuna khichuri.
sobji khichuri hoilo court e gia bia kimba temon dhum dham na kore.
r vuna khichuri hoilo shadharon bibaho with altra-calorie, extra fat treat.

[BBa_dEAN]

Well P.V.M vai VEGETABLE VUNA KHICHURI :P

[DeV|L]

The topic is going down the drain with all the fat and non-fat kichuris! :P

[BBa_dEAN]

DeV|L GYM ae giya 2-3 din ABS maira vuri komaya vaaab baira gese na..??

Bissho khadok abar fapor mare KHICHURI niya...!!!

Polapanz shob moira gese naki...???

[DeV|L]

Hahaha...naah...can never ignore food...I prefer veggie bhuna khichuri btw! :D

[priencess_fiona]

kind of filmy ....heheheeee i saw hindi movies like dat . Though my parents is my best friend . They will neve tell me anything if i like some one ,caz they trust me . And they know my taste .I guess no conflict between lover and family .heheheeeee

I wish i have a life like hindi movies ..wowwwwww so nice heheheeee

[pirate_of_da_caribbean]

lol....family i guess........

[Liquid_Emotion]

both

[NEW BORN BABY]

of course.family...............

[sidewinder]

family comes first, definitely....but i won't let family interfere with my choice....after all, i'd be getting married to the girl, not my parents!! :)

[AduBhai]

thik.........thik..........

[Son Of Bangla]

family family family.

[HolySlayer]

emneo family omneo family... jare bia korbo or shathe future family... ar maa baap er shathe present family... (future family hole aager family'r shathe definitely bhalobhabe related thaakbe... so no question of preferring one over the other''')

[sachcha]

ok ami arokom akta situation e porechilam r ami amar famili k beche niechilam....but dat was long time ago.....tokhon ami enuf maturd chilam na.....akhon mone hoe na arokom kono prob hobe coz akhon ami convinc korte parbo sheta familikei hok or love kei hok.....

[pirate_of_da_caribbean]

yah....like sw bro said........if i make a choice ......ma family will go on with ma choice.....but y shud i make a choice like an idiot....?.......we have 2 work things out.......

[imran]

Family are Lover er moddhe difference ta ki???

je lover se ki family na naaki??

[sachcha]

aikhane actuali family bolte core relative der bojhano hoeche.....

[cYcLone]

i can make my parents understand! and my family will understand as far as i knw dem :S. but who knws!!! time says it all :S

[Urmi]

Not suppose really happend with me .I chose both at that time .I can not live widout 1 of thm.One years ago my life turn out to be a hell lotaa dramaa.I am glad everything is fine now.

[Liquid_Emotion]

really eager to hear what kind of drama you have faced

[queen of the universe]

ami jaina ki korbo.... me seems to commited for my loving 1... can do anything for him... but god knows... i love my family equally :) valoi hoise bf nai hehehe....

[DeV|L]

LoL, its a hard thing, but its easier to go against the family, coz with family, you have a chance of getting back real soon!

[cYcLone]

family first den love for me